People involved in our Life
Is there anybody in this world without anybody being involved in his or her life? I mean, is there anybody that is not having anybody involved in his or her life or has never had anybody involved in his or her life? Is it even possible not to have anybody involved in one's life?
We can group people involved in our life into the following categories.
(A) According to the kind/form of relationship we have with them.
1. Those through whom God used to bring us to life (our parents).
2. Those we share the same mother with, because we came from the same womb.
3. Those we share the same father with, because we share the same chromosomes.
4. Those we share family with, because they are biologically connected to our parents - our family members.
5. Those we share the same the same religious beliefs with, because we worship God in the same way and place.
6. Those we share the same classroom with in the school.
7. Those we share the same citizenship with, because we are from the same place.
8. Those we work with in the same establishment- those above us (our boss), those beneath us (our junior) and those at same level with us.
9. Those we call our friends;
boyfriend, girlfriend, someone you are dating or going out it.
10. Those we call our children, because we gave birth to them or adopted.
11. Those whose idea, ideology, philosophy of life, principle of life and lifestyle is affecting us or has affected us.
12. The one who is my husband or wife.
(B) According to the level of impression they have made in our life. These are:
1. Those who have made deep impression in our life; we felt deeply touched and positively challenged by them.
2. Those who have made a little or shallow impression in our life.
3. Those that never made any impression at all.
(C) According to the kind of memories we have of them. They are:
1. Good memories - pleasant memories, joyful memories, memories of happiness, and memories of success; memories that makes us want to stay longer with the person; memories that makes not ready to want to lose such people.
2. Bad memories - unpleasant memories, feeling of sadness, feeling of disappointment, memories of failure, memories of the pain of being heartbroken; memories that makes us feel deeply angry and never want to see the person any more.
Nothing is permanent in this world except change. Change is the only permanent reality in this world. We can choose to hold on to the bad memories, refusing to give healing a chance; wanting revenge, to pay back with the same coin. We can choose to forgive and let go and be healed.
Life is about meeting people and parting from people, and parting from people and meeting people, until we meet and part no more in heaven.
If you think you can avoid getting involve in the life of others or avoid people getting involved in your own life, then you are in for serious frustration because it is not just possible. We cannot; again, we cannot, because no man is an island. God is watching us @mybizarena.com
