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Everyone will at some point in a life time have life threatening deeply hurtful and upsetting experiences. Some people recover in a few days but some don’t. Vera Onana writes about this disorder and how it can be handled. For Temilayo Omooba, a young academic, sleep has eluded him in the last three months and the night time has become his undoing. Before any of the nightmares and insomnia, Temilayo had a very healthy sleep routine, but all changed after he was attacked by a six-man gang of armed robbers. He tried escaping by the whiskers, but was severely beaten. He had almost lost hearing ability in his left ear due to the innumerable stinging slaps the gun men had inflicted on him. Though all the locks had been changed, Temilayo could barely shut his eyes for an hour straight before screaming out loud. Temilayo, like several other Nigerians suffer such fate. In most cases, it is erroneously referred to as spiritual attack and in some other cases, people close to them,...

Infertility: Causes of mistrust in marriage. By Chioma Obinna Mention “Infertility” and cold shivers run down peoples’ spines. Infertility threatens the love, peace and joy in a home. Many homes are faced with the agony of childlessness and infertility is fast becoming a plague. The desire of every couple is to become parents within the first or second year of marriage. While many couples have this dream fulfilled, quite a number of others do not; no matter how hard they try. When pregnancy is not achieved at a point, mistrust sets in. Most of the time, the woman bears the bulk of the blame. Antenatal Such was the case of Obigaeri and her childhood friend, Emeka, who later became her husband. “The moment I noticed my mother in-law’s frequent visits, I became suspicious,” Emeka said. Emeka and Obigaeri were close enough friends right from childhood that what started like child’s play blossomed into real life marriage. Six years into the marriage, there was no sign of pregnancy not ...

SEX: ANTIDOTE TO HAPPY FAMILY. Most people don't associate sex with God - they associate it with Satan and darkness, as if legitimate sex in itself is sin or not holy! The Qur'ân is explicit when it comes to sex. Sex is holy and even rewarding when done within marriage, and there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Qur'ân or Bible  is it said that the missionary position is the only sexual style. Not discussing sex in a relationship is what often leads to divorce and marital instability cum promiscuity. There is need for proper counselling on some women who complains as follows: My husband treats me as if I were his brother. I am tired of getting sex fortnightly, like a salary. some women only get it on big days, like elections. Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in Hillbrow. Have you ever asked yourself what those women out there have that you don't? Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties. If y...

REMOVING GALLSTONES NATURALLY By: Dr. Lai Chiu Nan It has worked for many. If it works for you please pass on the good news. Dr. Lai is not charging for it, so we should make it free for everyone. Your reward is when someone, through your word of mouth, benefits from the regime. Gallstones may not be everyone's concern. But they should be because we all have them. Moreover, gallstones may lead to cancer. "Cancer is never the first illness," Dr. Lai points out. "Usually, there are a lot of other problems leading to cancer. In my research in China , I came across some materials which say that people with cancer usually have stones. We all have gallstones. It's a matter of big or small, many or few. One of the symptoms of gallstones is a feeling of bloatedness after a heavy meal. You feel like you can't digest the food. If it gets more serious, you feel pain in the liver area." So if you think you have gallstones, Dr. Lai offers the following meth...