Nothing you have been through is wasted. By Francis Okpaleke.
Nothing you have been through is wasted . Years ago, I got a scholarship for a Master’s degree programme abroad. Excited, I wanted nothing more than to have my family join me in seeking the golden fleece of knowledge. Well, everything seemed alright except for one thing. I was pretty confident that our visas would be approved that I had spent a substantial amount of the scholarship money to buy plane tickets, book a hotel, pay for medicals and visa fees. I literally held nothing back in spending. After two weeks, I got the email that the application has been processed. Eager, I dashed to collect the ‘package’. Then, I opened the ‘bulky’ file and mine was approved but there were so many other white papers. Their visa had been refused. Right there, I slumped and shed an avalanche of tears. It was only but a simple error in filling the forms. A very simple one! I applied yet again explaining the error and once again refused. Then I went to the lawyers and filed my case twice yet a...